I'd been watching 50kinkyways for a while, thinking about what pairing I wanted to (or even could) do. I'm notorious for being heavy on the foreplay and skipping the porn entirely, so I've been taking babysteps with this.
My journal is now Friends Only, except for community posts.
LOLJK.
No, really. All I ever post these days is comm stuff, for the most part, so if something is superpersonal for whatever reasons, I'll "friends only" it, but other than that, whatever.